It's Been A While

For a while, I was on a roll...a dating roll, a blogging roll, but now...I'm standing still. I can't blog about dating online if, well, I'm not. I am still an active participant on these sites, but, let's just say that every dater goes through a drought.

I'm pretty thirsty.

Part of the problem is the same old, same old. Once you've been on these sites for a while, you see the same profiles time after time...everyone has pretty much decided who they want to contact and who they don't. So, if "hotnumber45" didn't want to date me when he checked out my profile on Thursday, chances are that the feeling will remain the same when I see his profile on Saturday. But, it works both ways. In turn, if I don't want to date "foreveryourboy" on Monday when I see his profile, I will feel the same way on Wednesday when he sends me an instant message. See my point?

I know that dating is feast or famine...but there is tumbleweed rolling around at the moment...that's ok...it will pick up again, and I will get back into the dating swing of things when it does.

Again, I by no means enjoy dating many men, but it's what needs to be done in order to find the right fit...the old sayings about kissing a lot of frogs and needles in haystacks are certainly true!

But, I do believe, with all of my heart, that he is out there...and when I find him-well, it will all be worth it.